James- thank you for what you wrote. That really resonated with me, and causes me to think about my faults in my marriage in a more meaningful way. (Meaningful to me, anyway. Little idea what it would mean to my STBXW.)
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final