James- thank you for what you wrote. That really resonated with me, and causes me to think about my faults in my marriage in a more meaningful way. (Meaningful to me, anyway. Little idea what it would mean to my STBXW.)


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final