Gordie: Pulling it all together 2

[Gordie]

We only spoke a few words to each other the whole night (probably the least we have spoken to each other in 20 years, even when traveling). I didn't ask about her day (I usually do), nor did she ask me about my day. She did ask me a D question because she has a meeting set up with her L. I told ForGump, I'm not good a distant (emotionally and physically not pursuing) and friendly. When I am distant, I know I am cold. How can I be distant and friendly?