How close are you to 20 years? I'm past 20 years and I found out in my state that 20 years is the statutory magic number at which point I will pay alimony for the rest of my life. I hope your H is not trying to save himself money by rushing the D before your 20 year anniversary.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving