I would just let the day pass - if you've never forgotten about it previously I wouldn't worry about it. She's very aware of what day it is and knows that you know too but has made her own choices. It's one of the consequences of being separated.

I faced a similar dilemma a few months ago and just let the day passed - W actually suggested having dinner together as a family - the day of - but I already had plans.


Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17