Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 8

[ForGump]

I think we all would want that (the cheating spouse express remorse). But why is that? What does that give us? If the cheater doesn't verbalize their guilt, does that mean he/she doesn't fully accept responsibility? And if they don't accept responsibility, that means they might do it again? Or they are a bad person?

Just trying to unpack the concept....