Gordie, have you been talking to my WH? LOL All of those things you mentioned about how WH feels about our marriage and me are right on the nose. He did mention all of those things when we separated and afterwards when we had relationship talks. We haven't had those talks in a while but he definitely had those concerns.

As far as me, I want to change how I feel about myself. I overthink everything and make things up in my head and then act on those thoughts. I want to GAL and be ok with or without WH. I want to learn how to handle his anxiety and not make matters worse because I feel insulted or controlled.

I've done very well lately not arguing and being happy and the best me around him. I can tell he likes this.

M-49 H-52
D-21 D-20 D-17
Married 20 years
Separated - Since 01/2014