Hi Jeep, I'm sorry you're dealing with all that. People can be so horrible.
There's only so much you can do. Try to protect your kids from as much of it as you can. Sometimes its best to turn a blind eye and walk away. It doesn't matter what you do or say, people are going to believe what they want. And if her family is really that crazy, then 10 is right.... she did you a favor.
Prayers for your mom.
M:41 H:43 T:26yrs M:19 yrs S:15 D1:14 D2:9 Living together but separated