I agree, but I can't find the fitting online. Unfortunately H was the one who originally fitted the toilet(it's a built in unit)....the bucket will have to do for now.
All I'm saying is, if and when he wants to initiate contact I believe he will use the toilet as the excuse to. The fact it's on his mind must be niggling him, or he wouldn't have mentioned it (well in my head!)
It will be coming up to a year in March. He's going to have to come to some kind of a decision soon. He can't run two homes indefinitely.
