((HUGS)) Jeep you seem like an incredibly thoughtful father and son. Don't let the crazies bring you down. In fact, thank your exW for helping you dodge a bullet.
Thank you. I'm trying so hard. But just before I typed this another round of craziness from her.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.