Sounds like he has become pretty intolerant of mundane, routine but essential maintenance activities. You may not even want to have those discussions with him - just make suitable plans to get them fixed yourself. And if he asks you can update him...
If you discuss stuff like that with him, I wonder if he comes to associate you with those things that are burdensome to deal with and make him feel bogged down??
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