I made sure I put my having a tat on FB, knowing full well that DIL will tell MIL, who in turn will tell H.
Lo and behold, it came to my attention on Saturday night that he had reactivated his account..........after seven months! Guess he put his head above the parapet for a nose on mine and D's timelines. The last time he was on, he had hidden his marital status, but this time it was on show.
Then his cousin tagged him on Sunday and poof! Deactivated again!
Anyway, I forgot to say that our toilet flush broke before Christmas and I've been using a bucket to flush it since. He does know as I asked SS to look for the part online (can't find it) and he in turn told H. H asked D in his text on Christmas Day and on her Birthday if it had been fixed.
So, when he's ready he actually does have that as an excuse to make contact. I'm sure by know.....he has sussed that I will not initiate contact.
Meanwhile the bills are still being paid. Ho hum......tat is still healing nicely