Thanks for the message, it was really helpful. It made me feel less hurt, more able to take it less personally, and also gave me an insight into what I want - I want to follow your example. I want for her to eventually look at me and think, "hang on a minute...". I LOVED your story about dinner and how the OW was looking pissed off. Oh please please PLEASE may that happen for me one day, to be in that scenario.
