There's a whole chapter on sich like ours where the W/H continues the A - she seems to advocate softer boundaries but clearly state that the M is on "hold" or can't be worked on until the A is over - and then don't talk about it and continue to work on yourself.
The way that's worded, I'm not sure how I feel about that statement. Makes it seem like there are no repercussions for the affair...kind of like stay in the affair as long as you want and we'll work on it when you decide its over. Wow. Not liking that, but then again I haven't read the book nor do I need to at this point. I may be wrong and have been before. Just how it seems.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
