I just do not want her to think that I forgot about it. I am not sure what to do. I need to do something so that she does not think I forgot.
Why? Why is it important she knows you have not forgotten?
This is coming from the same man who was ready to confront her about sleeping with POM2 a few days ago.......and now, it is despartely important to YOU that she won't think you forgot her on your anniversary.
This is what I call the product of husband conditioning. And LBH'S want to use every event to show their WW he's still "cares". Regardless that she left and may be on OM #2, you feel you MUST do something, so she won't think you forgot or do not care. Why?
Truth is, it's you that will have the sentimental feelings of the anniversary. You will be the one looking to see if she sends a text and if she mentions it. It is you that wants to show her you still care. And, it's you who will go through this all over again on Feb 14.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
