I understand you want to give him options since it's his day off. Your daughter may feel that the two of you together are too much for her to deal with. You don't know why she's so low right now. I also think you should see your daughter alone then if she is ok with you talking to her father, then do so.

She's reaching out to you for a reason.Believe me I understand you don't want to keep anything from him but given your daughter's account of their visit at Christmas, how much help and support would he realistic give right now?

I'm not saying to keep anything from him. I'm saying talk to her first. Hope this helps xoxoxoxo sending {{{{{hugs}}}}}

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver