I would suggest weekly coffee. Maybe go silent for a couple weeks then call once a week and move on to weekly coffee then weekly dinner.

Slowly get back into her life where she can see your changes.

But then of course there needs to be changes. Changes that will stick and you dont revert when she reconciles.

So your homework. Dig deep and be a better you in all relationships. Practice w ur parents, siblings, etc.

May the force b w u!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017