Unfortunately even my wife wants the marriage to work deep deep inside, she is nowhere near to reconcile.
How do you know this?
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unfortunately if i know her well all symptoms point to "her not coming back here ever".
Mine even said the same. When she's done, she's done. Sigh.
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i wont be contesting a divorce and make it harder for either of us.
There is a difference between contesting and protecting yourself. Don't give in on important things in hopes of winning her back. That would be the biggest mistake of your life.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.