How much does your XW's interactions still affect your moods/emotions?
Actually, almost nil. Honestly, I don't care what she does anymore. However, it does bother me when her crap affects the kids. I am well past the realization stage. But, I won't say that at times it does still pull at the strings, because it does. And probably in some form, it always will. That's human nature.
One thing that I absolutely detest is fakeness, especially to my face. Just tell me like it is and I'll be much better off.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.