The parenting plan assumed we were going to be highly interactive, and simultaneously assumed we would just work out holidays and vacations on the fly. I don't think she understands that I don't want us to parent like we're still married or we're best buddies. I need a clean delineation.
FG--I'm interested in what your thinking on this topic. As you know, my W and I are discussing exactly what your W proposed--something much more fluid and interactive. Why won't that work for you (not trying to talk you out of it, but trying to learn from your situation)? What will work for you? How do you want to parent? What does clean delineation mean to you?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
