Journey to the D

[Tofbrks]

Taking care of some much over due paperwork with stbx this am. Something I have been putting off simply because dealing with her causes anxiety. It just so happens events necessitated her to press for this and I won't have to worry about changes.

Did go by HD and bought 10 of the cheapest , largest cardboard boxes I could. I would like to have as much of her crap ready to go to limit her time in MY home. Don't know why this bothers me so , just seems as though my home is the one sacred thing I have left. So I'm letting her have all her dishes she registered for as wedding gifts and all the pots and pans .... at least the ones she didn't burn something in and throw away.

Seems as though the woman I've been chatting with has been burned twice by men cheating. She knows the ropes very well and what I'm going through but don't know if that's healthy for going forward. If nothing else I've made a great friend that understands.

Daughters medical situation seems to have stabilized and that's good news.
The only scary thing is that she is so much like x in that she doesn't listen to reason and craves attention. She argued with me over this diagnosis, as it seems she wants to be "sick" for attention. So I have a long road ahead to try to figure out the pieces and make things right.