Gordie: Pulling it all together 2

[Rose888]

Aren't you trying to build emotional connection with your wife?

I mig say, "It looks like something is bothering you. Do you want to talk about it?
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If she does, follow FG's advice.

If she doesn't, let it drop without implying in any way (words, tone of voice, facial expression) that you think she should discuss it with you.