I am still doing DB. I am open to reconciliation but I am good with whatever happens. I actually saw the OM wife at an event and pulled her aside and asked her if she wanted to talk about what's been going on. That's all it took and she knew. She however will not talk to me now and I just said call me anytime if you ever want to talk.
We just told the kids that we have been fighting and not getting along and needed some time apart.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house