toi-- you have a very specific problem in your marriage. It seems to me one of the most hopeful cases I've seen described here. Your wife wants you, and wants the marriage to work. Your wife is being very reasonable. The only barrier to it is you. Man, get yourself checked out, deal w/ your physical and psychological issues, and get your marriage back!


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final