Love is a decision - my story

[Rose888]

I definitely wouldn't contact her if you aren't going to mention the anniversary.

I can see in some situations sending a blank card with the note, "I'm grateful for the good times we shared." Nothing that seems pursuing or implies you have a romantic or marital relationship in the present.

I'm not up on your situation enough to know if that would be a good idea in your case.

If a note like that isn't a good idea, I wouldn't contact her at all this week or next.