Hi esame, We've missed you. I'm sorry to hear that your h has officially filed. I feel for you, because I am in the thick of it as well. Just as job and bttrfly so eloquently mentioned, the nastiness is truly projection on his part. I've recently experienced this myself. Fortunately, you, I, and all of us have been doing the work to make us better people and stronger people emotionally. We're not nasty, vile creatures... Period. Honestly, I make-up that my ex actually got angrier and meaner when he saw that I was doing ok.
You seem to be a great mom, and I know you're a strong women. Keep moving forward with integrity.
Take care, esame!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16