Congratulations on the new job, HaWho! You'll rock it. New opportunities tend to bring in new energy and excitement. I hope you are able to enjoy it and let it invigorate you.
Sorry about your h. I agree with job... It's going to be a rude awakening when he realizes that time hasnt stood still the last few years. I guess on the plus side, He's clearly moving through some motions. The way you describe the situation... I can see there are moments of lucidity. He tends to be straddling the line between living in the present and the past. Maybe one day, he'll finally walk through the door and leave his childhood issues on the other side.
Wishing you a lovely week!
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16