Congratulations on the new job! You'll do just fine...just be yourself and remember...DB those that pluck your nerves! LOL!
Your h is going one step forward and two steps back. Interesting how he is obsessed w/aging. Time doesn't stand still for any of us and he better come out of that room and start enjoying life before it's too late. He reminds me of a hermit at times.
Enjoy your day and continue enjoying the things you love to do.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.