So my W was at work and I was with my kids and they wanted to stop in and see her. We did and she was there working with POM. POM and I are acquaintances and he is always friendly and chatty with me. For days after these interactions when she is in the presence of both of us my W gets really cold and angry towards me. Of course, I can't ask her about it. I guess I just give her space and process whatever feelings she is having within herself. Detach and let go. Breathe.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving