Sotto, this is one part that really troubles me. My situation is similiarr to RG but how does one spouse seem to move on so quickly with such a long history and marriage that was very meaningful. You said strong emotions exist for a good while, and grieving the loss. It appears as if my other half is completely fine and moved on extremely fast. This seems to be the case with most of us around here.

Sorry can't figure out how to quote on my phone.