From the very beginning, I said: " Give me the man he was and I would take him in a heart beat. give me the man he is now ( secretive, lying, unpredictable, unreliable...), the answer is no.

The old Husband is coming back. I see it. I agree with you. I am damaging more than helping him. I never thought of it this way. Thank you for pointing it out.

Meaning of friend, relationship partner, parenting etc.. The place someone has in your life has been a reflection of mine lately. ( brought on by the last relationship I had). I wonder if he gave me the role of "mother" for him to..

The future will tell! smile As long as the events stay positive, it will be welcome in my life. Would I take him back? I have no clue. Not yet.