Rose--this was eye opening:

*Mansplaining? Innocent

*Correct details? Guilty

*Override decisions? Partly guilty. If she makes a decision, I follow it. If she makes a suggestion, I don't always follow it. If she wants to do something that I don't want to do, then she needs to ask/argue with me repeatedly for me to change my mind. This last thing bothers her the most. I say you get your way on all big things and she admits that she does but thinks it shouldn't take so much work.

*Clarification? Guilty

*Pet names? Innocent

*Fixing? Guilty


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving