maly-- it's not a war for me, and I'm not looking to win or lose.
100383-- funny you thought she's having trouble pulling the trigger, my thought was on no she's pulling the trigger!
It's just JR says, you don't know how you're going to feel til it happens. I just have to make myself choose to look forward, not backward.
I also have a lot of sympathy for what my W is going through. All the bad choices she's making, all the confusion and turmoil she's feeling... she can't help it.
Fg ,no wasent a war with me for over 4 years,but is now,and if your wife does some of the things my w has done u might just change your mind on that,I'm looking at it like this,you can roll over and let them roll over you if that's what you want,or you can fight,i rolled over for 4 years and got no where,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
