maly-- it's not a war for me, and I'm not looking to win or lose.
100383-- funny you thought she's having trouble pulling the trigger, my thought was on no she's pulling the trigger!
It's just JR says, you don't know how you're going to feel til it happens. I just have to make myself choose to look forward, not backward.
I also have a lot of sympathy for what my W is going through. All the bad choices she's making, all the confusion and turmoil she's feeling... she can't help it.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final