skyhigh-- I like the concept of what you're suggesting, but not sure putting into the D agreement is the right way to make it happen. Could add a lot of stress to make it a requirement. Will have to think about it.
Gordie-- my W has taken a series of small steps to file. Got the paperwork, asked me to look it over, filled out the paperwork, and filed it. She's just hesitating on the very last step of serving me. So I take her very seriously, despite her last-minute doubts.
maly-- 5 years!!! Your signature says you initially separated in 2012, and PA occurred in 2016. During those 4 years, did you remain strictly separated (in-house)? Or were there periods when you were "together" emotionally and physically? I cannot imagine living together with a separated spouse for 5 years.
Fg yes that's exactly how it was,with periods of together kinda when she wanted,,think this was mlc touch and go stage sex and all that,even telling me she loved me,I don't know exactly when the pa started I've a suspicion it was more like 2013/14 but I only found out in 2016 that's when the sh-t hit the fan,I just had enough of her she was kinda killing me inside,it was like a living hell in limbo she seemed happy living like that in control and using me like a doormat,but I couldent see it love is blind,but I've kinda woke up now I'm not going to let her treat me like that any more or ever again,
Me 56 w52 M30 years 4x adult kids W dad died/11 W wanted d 03/12 In-house sep 03/12 D 2014 I pushed W Left on 02/16 I pushed Pa on 07/16 Nc after 07/16 W Cakeating 15to16 Me doormat 12to16 Limbo 12to16
