Just a thought! Please do not send any 2X4', I am always brainstorming, I cannot help myself...

Did you think about having one week vacation a year with your kids and your ex-wife but without anybody else, once a year built into your agreement just to make the kids happy.
It can also help build a new "relationship" with her, you can show her what she is missing in case she finally gets out of her limbo.


Me 52+ WH 57+
Married 20 +
Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)