I have a hard time figuring out what I'm doing is pursuing her or not. I feel like me asking for her to pitch in on bills is trapping her to stay in our home. I only ask her what she is up to so I know what to expect in a the future. I guess there's a real thin line between pursuing somebody and cutting the cord.
Hello MLH,
Are you still with us?
Has your wife been helping with the household expenses prior to the issues between the two or you? Continuing to ask her questions is pursuing and probably driving her further away.
You are at a very fragile point in this relationship and it would be extremely helpful to know what your next move should be. Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.
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