Gordie: Pulling it all together 2

[Gordie]

job,

Thanks. I've been lurking over in MLC for some time and have read and re-read most of those threads. I'll continue to re-read them, as each time I do, more sinks in. In terms of the going dark one to start, the problem in my marriage was being too distant from my W, so going dark would be more of the same, so haven't taken that approach. With my DB coach, I have been trying to create emotional connection. It's been working, but my W is still unwavering in her desire for D.