Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Gordie]

Gordie, the doses of reality will help shake your Ws views. I'd imagine they help to create cracks in her fantasy and over time she won't be able to ignore the reality of the situation. I think the bigger question is how she'll react when reality fully hits her. I've been through some odd things with my W and I think they've happened as she's gotten hit head on with glimpses of reality. Just be prepared to deal with the oddness when it comes. It will catch you off guard.

LT--can you elaborate on this? What kind of oddness? I feel like I am constantly caught off guard...sigh.

And I like the idea of a family celebration...have actually done that in the past and might be perfect for this year.