But the truth is, everyone of us here was not doing something right in their marriage. We had insufficiencies. Some of pretty major from what I have read.
I was emotionally abused from my husband since the day we met. Through my IVF being pumped with hormones, and my pregnancy, I lost tolerance for it. I was passive/aggressive, always on the defense, and very angry that he was still being a mean selfish prick and making sure he was always number 1. I knew I had things to fix, and I wanted to work together. he chose to simply find another woman.
We were both insufficient. Neither of us handled it correctly.
