I'm sorry she's still flip flopping all over the place. To me, it sounds like she's trying to convince everyone and yes, even herself, that she's happy and has done the right thing. When people tend to brag like that, they are looking for validation and attention. Poor thing, she's miserable as the dickens and she truly wants attention for you and the girls. She, in her confused little mind, knows that she messed up big time.
I'm glad you finally set some boundaries and gave her an address to which she can reply. You don't need her sending this type of stuff to your phone or computer.
I do hope that you and the girls at doing okay.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
