Welcome back and congratulations! I'm very happy to come here and read your latest update. Now, just because he's home doesn't mean you go back to the old way of life. This is a brand new relationship and marriage, so you will need to dig deep and keep that patience shovel handy. It's an opportunity to take the DB tools and use them in your day-to-day life and never forget...you both have change along the way...so be patient w/each other.
Please come back soon and let us know how you are doing.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
