Yep, I'm here on the board, but not because of infidelity.
I beg to differ. There are all sorts of infidelity, not only of a sexual nature.
And what you are referring to would possibly apply in a "normal" marriage situation and not a situation where one spouse is dangling a divorce as a threat. I have seen these 30-40 something chick trips get very rowdy all too often. And all sorts of bus boys, lifeguards and receptionists are more than happy to oblige. She is def. going through the issues and she should stay away from all sorts of temptations. Alcohol reduces inhibitions and then some compliments are thrown and bob's your uncle...