And yet you find yourself here on DB forum. I am not attacking you, just trying to give you some material for thought. People change, your H changed, my W changed, I changed, you changed.
My wife was a firm believer that cheating is WRONG, she was outraged when her brother was cheated on 5 yrs ago, she was also firm in her belief that a man and a woman cannot have a close friendship without a sexual component. Needless to say all these beliefs changed when she hit MLC.
I have no problems with solo trips, but trips with a person of an opposite sex that is not a close relative is just asking for trouble. Not all people that are faced with such temptation are able to resist. That is why you remove the addict from his familiar surroundings...
I completely agree with your last paragraph. I've said repeatedly that I am not talking about travel with non-relatives of the opposite sex.
Chris's wife is not proposing a trip with someone of the opposite sex. (Is she telling the truth? I don't know.)
And Seeker's comment to which I responded was not talking about travel with a member of the opposite sex.
Sheesh, people, read all the words.
Yep, I'm here on the board, but not because of infidelity.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16