Well ll it's been a few eventful weeks, STBXH filled for D, I think I should be moving to the "Surviving the big D" forum soon, but wanted to give everyone a little update. We have been communicating a bit more, he has really been difficult about everything. I'm ok, somehow I feel fine and I'm happy that the kids and I are ok. He told me loads of horrible things about my personality, my relationship with his parents, my parenting skills etc etc. I cannot believe that he hates me so much. There is no way of going back after his horrible comments, I'm trying not to believe his rewriting of our history for my own sanity, but the man lives in Lalaland. I'm concentrating on the kids and securing a good financial arrangement, that's all I can do now.


"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"

“There is freedom waiting for you,
On the breezes of the sky,
And you ask "What if I fall?"
Oh but my darling,
What if you fly?”

-Erin Hanson