And yet you find yourself here on DB forum. I am not attacking you, just trying to give you some material for thought. People change, your H changed, my W changed, I changed, you changed.
My wife was a firm believer that cheating is WRONG, she was outraged when her brother was cheated on 5 yrs ago, she was also firm in her belief that a man and a woman cannot have a close friendship without a sexual component. Needless to say all these beliefs changed when she hit MLC.
I have no problems with solo trips, but trips with a person of an opposite sex that is not a close relative is just asking for trouble. Not all people that are faced with such temptation are able to resist. That is why you remove the addict from his familiar surroundings...
