How to rekindle love? (2)

[ForGump]

Another issue for me was not feeling like H desired me for myself. I felt like he wanted sex and I was his only choice. I didn't feel like he wanted me.

Rose,

I made my W feel that way. Unintentionally. Can you tell me more about how that happens? What did he do or say that communicated to you that he didn't desire you, he just wanted sex? Was it that there was little attention paid to you, and he went straight to intercourse? Or was it the whole timing of it, him not being in tune w/ your moods, and trying to get intimate when you were nowhere close to feeling relaxed and sexy?

Conversely, what *could* he have done to communicate that he wanted you?

Thanks.