NLT!!! Wow!!! What a surprise!!! I can’t believe it’s been so long since your last post! But, it doesn’t feel like it to me… I guess because I’m still in a sort of limbo land…
I’m so happy to read your updates! I’m happy to learn that your D1, S1, S2, and especially your D2!!! are doing well! And I always had that feeling… that you would be the one to make it… You had so much patience, you were always a person who your H could trust and count on, you remained his best friend… At the same time, you were moving along with your life and taking care of yourself. Isn’t what the DB is all about!
Out timeline is very close, but I cannot say that I’m anywhere close to where you are. My H is also a “nice” MLCer, but there was no crazy OW and other “dramatic” things in his life. Sometimes I wish he had a crazy OW, LOL… so it would put the things into prospective and speed up the journey… And, I’m not even sure at this time that his MLC journey is going to end… Or, if I will be there when and if it happens…
NLT, thanks so much for coming back to post! Your story could inspire a lot of people on this board. It gives a prospective into a MLCer’s mind, into MLC as a whole, and how long it could take. You don’t need the “words of wisdom”, your example speaks for itself! I think it is almost given that you would have some trust issues after all of this. But, I’m confident that you are the one who can make it… to a new relationship that is stronger than it was before.
NLT, I wish you more patience and understanding, while you and your H are making your way back to each other. Enjoy your grandchildren! I can’t remember if you had them 1 ½ years ago. Or, were they born since your last post???
NLT, you made my day today! Thank you again for posting!
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
