Gordie: Pulling it all together

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Yep, quite the cast of characters our WWs have found. Unfortunately our Ws tend to turn a blind eye to what type of man would pursue a married woman.

Gordie, the doses of reality will help shake your Ws views. I'd imagine they help to create cracks in her fantasy and over time she won't be able to ignore the reality of the situation. I think the bigger question is how she'll react when reality fully hits her. I've been through some odd things with my W and I think they've happened as she's gotten hit head on with glimpses of reality. Just be prepared to deal with the oddness when it comes. It will catch you off guard.

No advice on the VD front. I'd agree that lingerie is not the way to go. But I waffle around giving her a gift. What if you did something for the kids and invited her along? Great time with them and she can have a reminder of what it's like to be part of a happy family. Just a thought.

Hang in there brother. These things are tough but you are tougher.