I agree. In hindsight, my W's MLC started a few years ago but the catalyst for the BD was the way the POM made her feel. Think of the fantasy and real life OMs on this site, what a cast of characters. The W's feel so starved for attention and affection, bored or trapped in their lives, that they are open to attention from any man...old, young, rich, poor, married, unmarried...anyone.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving