Wow, just reading what Sotto, Ginger and Job wrote gave me a shiver down my spine! They might just have been writing about me!
I can imagine you are both very confused right now. I think sometimes having an R talk is the only way to know where you both are and if you are on the same page...
Hugs Pink.
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')